If I want to gauge how important something is to me or to someone else, I put it through the same filter I have since I was in my teens. This filter I use is the following: Is the person using the care, diligence and urgency that I imagine a heart or brain surgeon would use on the country’s leader or that a Marine or SAS operative would use on a special mission?
These scenarios are life and death. Mistakes can cost lives, including your own, if you were the patient or the operative.
These people will be highly trained, well drilled, and focused on a successful outcome. They will confidently take action to achieve their desired result.
They probably don’t use phrases like, “I kinda feel like I can give it a try and then we will just see what happens.” Certainly words you do not want to hear from your heart surgeon as they are putting you under…