There is often someone on our mind at any given time. This could be a special someone, an ex, your spouse, your kid or parent or an old friend.
There are dozens of reasons why they could be on your mind as well. Some examples are that you’ve not spoken for awhile, something reminded you of them, there is a longing for them or they’ve done something special.
Reflect on this today. Catch yourself and notice when you’re thinking of someone else and why. There could be a pattern developing…
Your life is like a book. It is filled with many chapters. Some have been written while others remain blank pages.
Although the blank pages may already have the destiny in place, it is not written such that you can read it in advance.
When a chapter is completed, take a moment to reflect on it. Appreciate the experience before moving on to the next chapter.
Though don’t dwell too long on what has come to pass. Life is short and you are best to continue your present into the future. After that brief reflection, begin immediately and dive in, just as you would start a new chapter of an exciting book.
Life is for living. Get going! Write your amazing life story.
Take time to reflect on conversations and situations. Really explore your participation and also other people’s input. Try to see how their perspective may have differed from yours.
There is a lot you can learn from a post-mortem. You won’t learn everything, but you can learn a significant amount which may change your feelings toward the person or the situation.
While winter can be tough to get through, it doesn’t last forever. Stay resilient, envision a better future and try to enjoy a little while you’re going through it.
Often we try to rush things faster than we should. If you are running late, you may try to drive faster to make up the time to your next appointment. Often that works, but sometimes you get a speeding ticket or have a minor accident.
You can’t rush cooking something. You wouldn’t be advised to cook chicken for half the time the packaging says. You may end up feeling unwell.
Sometimes we need to just let things play out. You may want to hurry it along, especially if waiting or the topic makes you uncomfortable. But it can be good to wait and see where things go naturally. You can develop patience, learn about human nature and hone your listening and observation skills as things play out.
The world has a rhythm. Let things play.
If there are two ways to interpret what has been said, choose the better interpretation. You’ll be happier.
Hold on tight to your tiny wins. They keep you smiling, positive and ready to receive more.
A young lady gave me a little more scoop of ice cream than probably she was meant to. There was a clear difference to other cones I’d seen. She had the biggest smile. I thanked her and we shared that fun smile. It was kindness in action.
It was a tiny win for both of us and we knew it. In fact, here I am a week later writing about it.
Some things I initially thought were negative this week, have been reframed as tiny wins. And my life is magnitudes better off from them.
If your curiosity, fear or imagination has been engaged, or you’re overwhelmed by them, I suggest you ask the person directly, swiftly and kindly. If you want to know something, don’t guess or assume, ask with kindness.
I wouldn’t beat around the bush, prevaricate or go through other people or channels. Just call, text, FaceTime and see if you can get the answer you were looking for. It’s often much easier, quicker, effective and appreciated.
Many things require patience in life. Waiting on news from someone about to give birth or of someone unwell. Waiting for a wound or injury to heal is a common period that requires patience.
Patience while driving, skiing, shopping and banking are all good examples.
Be more patient and see how your days improve.
You really notice a difference when someone has that energy, that sparkle. They are great to be around, fun, playful and energetic.
They engage so passionately that it is impossible not to feel great and uplifted.
Get more of these people in your life.
