When chatting to someone, get excited about the conversation. Become curious about the person and what they are saying. Ask lots of questions. Sit forward, on the edge of your seat.
Use as much information as you can.
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Category: Action
Find Common Ground
The best starting point is common ground. When trying to build a relationship, if you start with common ground, you will be more likely to get where you want to go.
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Be Sensible
It’s not always as easy as people think. ????
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Life Is Good
Enjoy!
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Persevere
This is hard. Hanging in there and persevering through the thick and thin is exceptional difficult.
Parts of you are screaming to stop the madness. And yet you keep going. That’s mental toughness.
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Chase Your Dream
Stay focused.
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Uncomfortable To Unstoppable
When you begin anything for the first time or if you’re just trying to improve it, you will feel uncomfortable, unnatural and even unable, to change things going forward.
It is, however, up to you to make this work better.
Because there is only one way to get to unstoppable, and that is through uncomfortable.
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Keep Digging
Sometimes you need to keep digging to find the answers. Everything makes sense with enough information. If something isn’t making sense, it’s because you’ve probably made an assumption and you don’t have enough actual information
Most things happen for a reason, and it’s your job to uncover the actual reason. Not the reason you think should be the answer but the actual reason.
Our brains love to shortcut things and think it’s seen this story before and therefore uses unrelated data to complete a story. This is not a good way to think. It’s quick, but not effective. Every single situation has different data points, decision points, and variables. Some of the variables are big and significant and some are small and seemingly insignificant.
Regardless of the size of the variable, the simple act of changing one very tiny thing actually changes everything.
So be rigorous with your thinking. Use all the data points you can find and then go find some more. Keep digging!
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List What You Want
Stop spending so much time on what you don’t want in life. It’s like praying for bad things to happen.
Start focusing on what you do want each day. List what you want and then focus on that list. It will be a bit uncomfortable and you’ll find it a bit difficult the first few times you make or add to this list. But then it will get easier and you’ll start to see the results you were looking for. You might even go on to become unstoppable!
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Control The Input
Rarely can you control the output, but you can control the input. You can work harder, train more, prepare better and really enjoy the moment.
Have grit and grind all the way. Maximise the input to improve your chances of the output you really want.
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