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Listen More.

Sure you’re smarter, better educated and have more experience. But that also gives you biases, blind spots and sometimes a dismissive overconfidence. Other times you might just be defending your position or that of your tribe.

Are you looking for solutions? Are you looking for improvement? Are you willing to be given insight that you were not aware of, missed. Or overlooked?

it’s time to listen more. You’ll be better for it.

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Try Different Angles

When you want something, try different angles to make it work out. There might only be one way to do something but that is rarely the case. You may have to use your imagination and get creative in what you do.

For example, if you want to meet someone in an office setting and you can’t reach them on their direct line, try calling the receptionist. Or call their secretary. Alternatively you could trying calling their unit head, office manager, colleague or even CEO.

If calling isn’t working, try sending an email, a letter in the post, use LinkedIn or other social media accounts, or go to their office. There are many ways to make things happen. Sometimes you need to try several different options before you find success. If you keep trying different avenues, options, timing and tones, you greatly increase your probability of success.

So be sure to try different angles.

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When Life Changes

You need to adjust when life changes. If you get a diagnosis, your body changes, or there are external factors, you will need to change the way you do things.

You may have to change your diet, medical interventions, pills, exercise, route to work or your whole life!

Regardless, we are adaptable if we want to be. And we will survive. So start adjusting.

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Choices Can Paralyse

When there are too many choices, and you didn’t arrive with a specific one in mind, you can be paralysed with indecision.

Narrow it down quickly to three by selecting your favourites and/or deleting the least liked by you.

Make a list of all the benefits of those that remain. Best one wins!!

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Seeking Perfection Is Detrimental

If only perfect people can be heroes and have statues built for them, we will have neither. The current push by some for perfect equality, perfect communication and perfect decisions is likely to destroy the humanity in society.

If people get cancelled, excommunicated, destroyed, and expelled for imperfect thoughts, actions and impulses, people will shrink into the shadows and take fewer chances with anything.

Play this out till the ultimate conclusion and there will only be a handful of hypocrites remaining as they wouldn’t dare cancel themselves. If you don’t see the game evolve several moves ahead, you will likely find that checkmate is in your future.

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