There is so much you can do. The challenge is fitting it all in. Finding the time to do everything you would like to do is one of the hardest things you’ll do in life.
You’ll need great planning, discipline, sacrifice and patience. You can fit in a lot if you try. Though be careful to keep some balance amongst the big themes in life.
Decide to be confident. Remind yourself of all you’ve done in life so far. It’s actually quite a lot.
Focus on some bigger plans and get to work. As you do, your conscience will also grow. In addition, your dreams will get closer to completion too.
These three ingredients will carry you a long way in life. Stay focused on these and success is bound to find you.
There are other key elements you can add once you are doing these three items consistently, every day. But until these habits are firm and unwavering, stick with these
We do a lot for work, our families, spouse, kids and parents and also friends and community.
However, do you do enough for you?
Get into the habit of taking 1 full day for you every 6 months. It’s essential.
Try not to fight it too much. Go with what your body tells you, and your mind.
You’ll feel very refreshed at the end of it.
Aim to be hired on your merit. Yes, it’s expedient to be hired based on other things, but it will never be as pleasing and will rarely make you proud.
You’ll feel better about yourself if you come second on your merits than first by having some strings pulled.
Better questions will help you reveal powerful truths for a better future. What exactly do I want my life to be like in precisely 5 years time?
Can you be honest with yourself with that question? We often try to trick ourselves and avoid the brutal facts of reality. It is easier in the short run but it all catches up with us in the longer run.
Ask questions but also listen carefully to the answer. The answers will reveal more than the ones you make up or hear about in the news.
Every now and then, annually perhaps, you should reassess what you believe and why you believe it.
Consider where you learned these beliefs and how it benefits you.
If there is hate in these beliefs, find out who put it there and why you allow it to stay.
There was great music made in 1983/84/85, and a few other years.
Is music great because of the age you were when you heard it, because it’s just great music, or for some other reason?
Some songs you’ll know forever and others will never be memorable. It’s partly situational.
People tend to pick sides or teams. Whether it is in a religious setting (Christian v Muslim), sports (football v rugby), Politics (left v right) or any other area with more than one option.
Be clear why you picked the side you did.
