Look and you shall find. Define your vibe and tribe and then go out and find them.
They are out there and will welcome you wholeheartedly. You just have to make the effort to find them.
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Category: Reframe your thoughts
Engage In Good Faith
When you engage in a discussion with someone, do so in good faith. Listen carefully. Don’t summarise what you want to believe they think, but rather, actually try asking for clarification.
“What is your position on x matter?”, is one way to do this. “Could you clarify what you mean by this?”, is another.
Too many people summarise someone’s position incorrectly and sometimes simply in bad faith. If you’re paying attention, and with reasonable cognitive ability, you understand what another person is saying.
Don’t be that person that takes everything out of context, pushes your own bias or makes sweeping generalisations.
The world would be a much lovelier place if people engaged with curiosity rather than animosity.
Many people are very sensible and are simply trying to find solutions that make sense to them. Allow that to breathe and investigate in good faith. The world needs more of this.
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Rest Day
Remember to have a rest day. You need it for your mind, body and soul. Relax. Enjoy. Rejuvenate.
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The World Is Shifting
There are big changes happening and also little ones. Open your eyes and see. Left moves right and right moves left. The world will remain in balance as it always does.
Sometimes it’s concerning for one group of people while others seem to excel. Eventually though things shift back the other way.
Occasionally it takes longer for the pendulum to swing back, but it always does.
Don’t try to push things too far one way or the other because you’ll really feel the whiplash SnapBack. There are lots of examples in history and probably plenty you can think of from your own experience too.
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Strong Push
Sometimes you need to give a strong push to complete a project, revise for an exam or finish a race or workout.
If it’s not very difficult or draining, both mentally and physically, you might not really understand the word strong.
It could involve two days with no sleep or six days with only 3 hours sleep a night. It will be uncomfortable but it is short term and required to ensure the goal is met in the required time.
Train your brain to push through the pain and challenges and on to the win!!!
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The Weather
Are you happy it’s hot right now? Would you rather it be cooler? Or hotter still?
In winter, many people want it to be warmer and in summer, many people want it to be cooler.
Try really enjoying the lovely aspects of what you have at the moment. Soon enough it will be gone again and you’ll be wishing it was back. Enjoy the moment while it’s here. Look for the positives and you will find them.
What were you hoping for in winter when it was cold, dark and wet outside? Isn’t it warm, bright and dry at the moment? Love that.
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How You Vibe
Be sure you have the right vibe. No, not just for your current friends, but for a great life. Attract winners into your realm. Be the type of person that good people want to spend time with.
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Step Outside
Get some fresh air. Go for a walk. Enjoy a little break. You probably deserve a 45 minute break. Go on. Indulge.
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Completer Finisher
The completer finisher habit is rare and highly sought after. Lots of people can start things but many of those struggle to complete a task or a project.
Being able to direct things and complete tasks is learnable. Build that mindset.
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Appreciation
Appreciation is a critical element in life. The more you see benefit, the more you appreciate it and the warmer you are.
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