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Find Common Ground

Great conversations find common ground. If both parties look for things they have in common, most often they will realise that there are very few things they actually disagree with.

If you begin with the belief you are miles apart, on all the issues, then you probably will be. Our minds tend to prove beliefs we hold.

But if you believe you probably have a lot more in common than you think, your brain will seek out those common points. And often you’ll find that it is true.

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Find Your People

Find the people that uplift you and challenge you to be the best version of yourself. Surround yourself with people that will stretch you and encourage you to do the work on yourself and maintain the discipline required to succeed in your preferred field.

Find good people, not easy people. Look for those people that will call you out on your pity party nonsense. Don’t find an easy crowd, go where the stakes are high and the challenges stretch you every day.

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Find The Time

Get rid of time takers that don’t serve you. Stop watching videos that aren’t amazing. Shut off movies quickly if they are not engaging.

Find the time to do the things you really enjoy. Reduce the time you spend on everything else.

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Find The Win!

There is always a silver lining. Sometimes you have to search very hard for it. Other times it doesn’t feel that great, regarding the silver under the circumstances, but it is there. We can seek to get something out of every experience.

Sometimes it does take days, weeks or years to discover the win or accept it. But when you look, you’ll find the win. Look for one every day.

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Find Your Faith

What do you believe in?

Have you ever really sat down for an hour and wrestled with this? Perhaps you have very clear cut convictions. Writing out your thoughts can be very helpful.

I think there was a scene in Bull Durham where the player rhymed off everything he believed in. Can you do that?

Maybe it’s time to give it more thought. ????

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