Don’t hold back. Go all in. Give 100% commitment at all times. If both parties do, you will have an amazing relationship.
Though, if you only give 83% one time, it won’t feel the same. With some hesitancy, but concern, the other person could cool down to 68%. Then the 83% could slip to 57%. Be careful of this downward spiral.
That is why it is so important to keep running hot at 100%. Don’t allow room for doubt. Keep the confidence ultra high. This is the way to thrive in your relationship.
Everybody has their moment of hard. Just because you don’t see them going through it, doesn’t mean they aren’t. And they may not be going through it right now but perhaps they did three years ago. Or maybe they will go through it in the next three years.
People have hard moments that they have to get through. Give them your support. Allow them some grace. They may not know how to deal with it. It could be a bit messy. Let them have some space and give them a break if it isn’t perfectly dealt with.
Smile more!
Whatever your game is, play hard and play to win. Stay within the rules but play with intensity and desire.
Being unsuccessful is relatively easy. At least it is at first. Laze around, do little to no work and spend money you don’t earn or have. the consequences mean it does get much harder as the months and years go by though.
Building up your success habits is another story though. Eating less and better food takes discipline. Exercising or going to the gym takes discipline and it can be hard. Studying is rarely easy. Same with doing your work, dishes, and laundry. Saving and investing is also quite difficult near the start.
There are a lot of things you need to do to be successful. The sooner you get each one under control, the better off you’ll be!
Life is not as hard as some people think. And it certainly isn’t as easy as others think. These positions or viewpoints can change at any time though, depending on events.
We rarely feel good going through them but we feel stronger after. That sense of reassurance, resilience and confidence to overcome tough obstacles feels great once you make it through. Focus on that light at the end of the tunnel. Faith and hope will get you through.
Mentally prepare for that. Build resilience.
Sometimes you have to press hard to get things done. That may mean days or weeks of 20 hour days. But there are times you have so much on and a short timeframe to deal with it all. You just have to press on and do it!
Keep hydrated, power nap if you can and stay positive. This too shall pass. Fun will come again. There is a time for all things.
This is a great way to decide whether you do things in life. If you are not delighted and shout out ’Heck yes’ at the mere mention of something, then it may not be worth your piece of life to do it.
In that case, make it a hard no.
Of course sometimes you’ll be required to do things that don’t excite you and bring joy. But when you have the choice and the decision is yours, live your life in the ‘Heck yes!’ zone.
Imagine that life! Heck Yes!!!
