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Get Help

If you’re struggling with admin, sales, your mindset, systems or anything else, get someone to help you.

A few pounds on good help can dramatically change all kinds of things, including your calm.

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Get Help While You Can

Whether you need help at work, at home or for personal reasons, arrange that help as soon as you can.

The earlier the better and it will help you grow faster, tidy quicker, plan better and have things in place before you really need them.

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Help People Up, Don’t Tear People Down

Focusing on negative aspects and the 2% of people that cause harm rather than the 98% that are neutral, or lift people up, is crazy.

There is no need to tear people down, call them names, or become hostile. They may have a different life philosophy to you, see things a bit differently to you based on their experiences in life or have a different political preference, but that is ok.

Live and let live. They have come by their views just as you have come by yours. For all but a few radical outliers, we can still get along despite our different perceptions.

And it’s a lot easier to get along if people haven’t called you names, shunned you or left you in fear for your health.

You don’t have to become a cheerleader, but please be decent in your discussions.

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Help Your Mom And Dad

Help them when you’re 11 years old. And also help them when you’re 16, 23, 37, 58 and 72, and all other ages.

When you’re young, do the dishes, keep your room tidy, get good grades, and help pack the car. Help carry bags and lift things as well as sell stuff on eBay and fold the laundry well.

You’ll feel better for having done it when you’re older. You made a contribution. You appreciated them. Taking some of their burden can be a very big help. You might not realise how big.

When you’re older, you can fix things around the house, take them to doctors appointments or help declutter papers and things.

Go sort something right now.

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Help, Yes. Enable, No.

You can help people improve without encouraging unhelpful thoughts and actions. Helping people is a kind thing to do. However, when you enable bad behaviour and choices, you are no longer their friend, but their enemy.

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