Don’t hold back. Go all in. Give 100% commitment at all times. If both parties do, you will have an amazing relationship.
Though, if you only give 83% one time, it won’t feel the same. With some hesitancy, but concern, the other person could cool down to 68%. Then the 83% could slip to 57%. Be careful of this downward spiral.
That is why it is so important to keep running hot at 100%. Don’t allow room for doubt. Keep the confidence ultra high. This is the way to thrive in your relationship.
Focus on what you would love, not what you would not want in your life. Whatever you are thinking about, that’s what you’re gonna get more of. So if you think of things that you don’t want, you’ll get more of them and if you think of things that you do want, you’ll get more of those.
Your mindset is incredibly powerful, so learn to use it very well. Become a specialist in how to use your mind.
You may fall in love. Someone may accept your love. But to find someone who loves you is a special thing.
It’s the only you’ve got!
Love what you do. Love the important people in your life. Make a point of making them feel like an important part of your life. Say good morning. Say goodnight upon retiring. Place your hand on their shoulder. Hug them.
Leave them notes. Praise them. Lavish compliments on them. Laugh with them. Enjoy your time together.
Thankfully you don’t have to do everything.
Whatever you don’t enjoy doing, you can find someone who really enjoys it. That’s a wonderful thing. Our accountant makes taxes fun, which is great. Some care workers are definitely in their best career. There are doctors who love doctoring and engineers who love engineering. That is the same for many electricians, farmers and plumbers too.
Thankfully, we all have our skills and passions to make the world go round.
Don’t let it drift away. Work at it, for better results. The effort you put in will be returned in spades (compounded many times).
What is it to you? How does it make you feel? Have you lost that loving feeling? Is it amazing?
Are you giving or receiving? Waiting or providing? Could you get hurt? Are you exposed? Is your communication like beautiful prose?
Define love in your terms. Then see where you can find it. Or maybe you provide it.
Those days you can wear shorts and a T-shirt and feel warm all day and never chilly. The ideal recipe begins from 21C, mostly sunny, 43% humidity and only a 3-6 mph breeze.
This is fabulous weather for me. It can still go warmer. It can go all the way up to the early 30s; especially if there is a lovely swimming option nearby.
Enjoy it every day it’s here!
Great question paraphrased from the song Russians from the 1985 album by Sting.
37 years later, it is more relevant than any time since. La plus ça change…..
