A very hard question for many people to answer. Lots of people know what they don’t want. But actually articulating what they do want – that can be near impossible. Isn’t that crazy?
We should spend more time in the affirmative. Think and dream about what would make us happy, not not make us sad or angry etc.
Come on people!
Write out 10 things you want in life. Do it right now. Can you even get six written out?
Spend your time on clarifying precisely what you want and when you want it.
If you spend your time on listing out the things you don’t want, you’re actually increasing your chances of getting those, just by bringing them into your focused consciousness.
So write out your wants everyday. Stay focused. And get things coming to you.
Like a grocery list, you sit with pen and paper and look around and think about what it is you really would like.
Rather than jam and milk, you might think about a month in Peru in their summer, hiking the Inca trail, spending two weeks on a quiet beach on Zanzibar or walking part of the Great Wall of China.
You can write out the qualities of the perfect partner for you or the outline of the book you want to write. You might also note down the fitness level you would like to maintain in your 40s, 50s, and 60s.
It’s quite a powerful process to write these things out and bring them to life. You’ll feel better for the process. Then you can organise when and how you’ll do them. Then go and enjoy your dreams while you can.
