If your curiosity, fear or imagination has been engaged, or you’re overwhelmed by them, I suggest you ask the person directly, swiftly and kindly. If you want to know something, don’t guess or assume, ask with kindness.
I wouldn’t beat around the bush, prevaricate or go through other people or channels. Just call, text, FaceTime and see if you can get the answer you were looking for. It’s often much easier, quicker, effective and appreciated.
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