This is how most of life goes.
You have a wish, desire or goal. You develop a little or big plan to achieve that goal. Then you start out all excited trying to achieve your goal.
Things then happen and you often will find out you need to pivot at that point.
From there it may all be fine so you can continue. However, if it is not all fine, you may need to pivot again.
Then repeat this process for everything you do in life. It’s that simple.
Make sure to have plenty!
This is far more effective than mind reading alone!
Find small ways to be a better person. Work on these a little every day. Keep going.
If you like or love someone, let them know. Tell them so they can feel it now, not later when it’s too late.
Every time.
That’s it.
Do you do this often? You decide why someone did something. It could be your spouse, a political leader, your boss or your child, but you believe you know why they did something.
Your opinion, your guess, your assumption, is now fact, at least in your mind.
Just remember, this says more about you, than them. It tells us how you think and what is in the realm of what you might do.
Sometimes it is better if you don’t express your opinion of how you believe others think.
This is what you say when you’ve had enough of someone or something.
No use crying over spilled milk. Oh well.
If someone is doing something well, then praise is due. Don’t hold back. Let people know when they are doing a good job, the right thing or making a positive difference.
