Don’t hold back. Go all in. Give 100% commitment at all times. If both parties do, you will have an amazing relationship.
Though, if you only give 83% one time, it won’t feel the same. With some hesitancy, but concern, the other person could cool down to 68%. Then the 83% could slip to 57%. Be careful of this downward spiral.
That is why it is so important to keep running hot at 100%. Don’t allow room for doubt. Keep the confidence ultra high. This is the way to thrive in your relationship.
Find the good in people, things and situations. If you look for the good, you’re more likely to find it. And if you find it, the better off you’ll be in your mental state.
Meet people. Be curious. Have fun.
Stay away from distractions. Your plan needs your time. Keep your focus tight. You’ll be glad you did when you win.
How you show up greatly determines how things go. If you show up bursting with positive energy, you are very likely to have a different outcome than if you show up lethargic, exhausted, unbothered or negative.
Check yourself daily. Do you exude positive energy? Or are you complaining and draining?
Is your attitude worth catching?
You can’t easily change your height but you can quickly change your attitude and energy levels. Get hyped up! Get your body worked up into an intense state. Then unleash that energy and make the world a better place.
So much of life is preparing. You prepare meals, your workday, a speech, for school, for life, for a holiday, for death.
Life is a series of events that you prepare for and then experience. Sometimes the preparation is minimal and other times it is extensive. You’re best to prepare a little more though as it usually means a better result for the event.
People reveal so much in what they say.
Remember that what they say, says more about what they are thinking, than anything they are talking about.
Culture eats strategy for breakfast, said somebody somewhere.
It’s pretty important.
Have one or two of these a day and notice the momentum shift in your favour in the next week.
Build this up to 10 or 20 per day and your life will be unrecognisable in a month.
Be curious. Look outside your normal thoughts and peer group. Discover why one person likes fire and another doesn’t. They both can have a very good, sensible reason for their position.
The vast majority of people want the same thing. And mostly for the same reason. Many will even concede they’d be happy with various methods to make the desired outcome.
But then some people get tribal, competitive and socially influenced. Why is that? It’s like a giant magnet. ????
Wonder why this happens. The secret of the universe is in there.
