Writing is great for focus and detail and having a permanent record.
However, speaking in person is so much quicker.
Writing is great for focus and detail and having a permanent record.
However, speaking in person is so much quicker.
With enough information, everything makes sense.
If something doesn’t make sense in your head, you don’t have enough information. Go find it, observe or sit and wait for it. Once you have enough information, you’ll be amazed.
A 56 year old has experienced 1,761,177,600 seconds of life and experience. Some of those will have been joyous while others physically painful or emotionally crushing. Still, many others were quite normal and some were mesmerising or soul-soothing.
All of those seconds and experiences create the person at that moment. One second earlier or later and they are different again. Just like the world around us; constantly evolving.
To know someone’s full life experience would take exactly all their seconds of life. Less than that and you may only be seeing the highlights or lowlights.
Cuddle your wife or husband.
Cuddle up on the sofa to watch a movie.
Cuddle up in bed. Or snuggle up. Your choice.
It’s warm, loving and relaxing. It soothes the soul.
One thought, one word or one action can change your life forever. One person, one child, or one hug can begin a whole new path.
One kind moment, one promotion or one car journey can change your world.
One great summer, one kindred spirit or one peaceful, reflective moment can rearrange your thoughts.
The power of one is significant.
Be kind. Be hopeful. Forgive. Go with grace.
Thoughts change as well as circumstances and perspectives. So keep an open mind while you’re assessing your options.
Sometimes it’s helpful to remain open minded even after decisions have been made. That’s why there’s a 14 day cooling off period after product purchases in the UK. People get more information or simply change their minds.
You have to make millions of choices in life, so, for the big ones at least, choose wisely.
Remember too, little choices can eventually make a big impact.
What do you believe in? Seriously.
Be clear and get comfortable with it. No more hiding and pretending. Write it down. Say it out loud.
This is a fundamental moment and milestone in your life. Declare it. And move on.
Can you see it? Is there someone or others who have your mind under control.
Would you have accepted this thinking 5 years ago?
Be aware of your thoughts and their origin.
In all of your thoughts and activities, think of the consequences.
Think of the immediate consequences, both probable and possible, and also the third and fourth level consequences that could occur after months or years.
I would encourage you to use your imagine with this as well. Don’t just consider the consequences you’d like to see but also stretch your mind to consider the unfortunate outcomes that could occur and would be the opposite of what you would want.
This exercise really helps you understand the possible consequences of your thoughts and actions and helps you better evaluate paths before you take them.