If you help people it can be a blessing. However, help can hinder the person’s personal development, self-esteem and confidence.
Helping often seems like the right thing to do. But, it isn’t always right, if there is a growth opportunity in sight.
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Category: Think About It
Get Fit. Stay Fit.
Food is a fuel, not entertainment. Use the best fuel you can by eating natural foods. Anything processed is obviously not natural.
Walk a fair bit. It’s a nice thing to do. Fresh air, movement, and sunshine are fabulous for your health and staying trim.
Develop good habits now. If you do, you’ll find staying fit quite easy over time.
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Things Are
Things are, events happen and situations occur. Sometimes we want things to be different and they aren’t. A real superpower is to be able to live with any outcome without batting an eye.
Acceptance is a critical skill to keep stress at bay and not waste time on things you can’t control.
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Follow Your Hunches
A lot of times you get a feeling. Usually it’s a good idea if you follow the advice your body is giving.
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Plan Ahead
There are so many benefits to planning ahead. It will save you time and money. It also saves you energy and allows people to take full advantage of great opportunities.
Like a Boy Scout: be prepared.
The magic is often in the actual planning itself. You will recognise bottlenecks in advance and see how things work well before they need to.
Go on. Draw out your treasure map for the future. Plan ahead.
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Find Common Ground
Great conversations find common ground. If both parties look for things they have in common, most often they will realise that there are very few things they actually disagree with.
If you begin with the belief you are miles apart, on all the issues, then you probably will be. Our minds tend to prove beliefs we hold.
But if you believe you probably have a lot more in common than you think, your brain will seek out those common points. And often you’ll find that it is true.
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Protect Your Eyes And Ears
First of all, protect them physically. For example, use protective eyewear and ear defenders more often than you may think you need to.
Secondly, protect them from visual and audio that does not bring you joy, isn’t positive and doesn’t improve your life. Many people try to influence you with pictures, videos and podcasts or broadcasts and you must be mindful that you are not being brought on a suspicious journey.
Find praise and appreciation. Look for positive and respectful conversations. Seek future oriented and helpful people.
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Organisation
If you can be organised and keep files and rooms tidy, you will be happier for it.
Pay someone to help you get, or stay, on top of it.
You’ll free your mind and be able to find things easily.
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Be Consistent
Avoid being hypocritical. Become self aware. Notice when you’re doing something you tell others not too.
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Reflect
Reflect on your success. Reflect on your strengths. Find areas in which you wish to improve. Then make those improvements swiftly and consistently.
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